Nancy ask us to post Off Centre photographs this week. Here is my contribution.
Here is my contribution to this week’s Fun Photo Challenge from Cee
Here are my answers to Cee’s Share Your World 31 July 2017
If you had to have your vision corrected would you rather: glasses or contacts? Or what do you use if you need to have your vision corrected?
I had excellent vision until my early 40s and then strange things seemed to happen. A child at school would show me her work and I would get irritated because she put it right in front of my face and I would pull back in order to read it. They all started this and I realised it wasn’t them it was me. I was becoming long sighted! So I bought a pair of those glasses you get from pharmacies and used them for reading only. But after a few years I realised that I needed a proper eye test. “My eyes are fine,” I told the optometrist ” I just need reading glasses.” But she showed me that I actually needed ‘varifocals’ because I could not see properly at all! My ego was deflated but once I got the varifocals it changed my life! I did not have to take my specs on and off and I could see properly all the time. I loved my specs. I have no desire to wear contact lenses. Spectacles rock!
Difficult question – I will have to say – BOTH. When I was a kid I adored cats but my mother wasn’t so keen on them – however, she allowed me to have a cat until I developed an allergy to them – my eyes streamed and my nose ran. We always had dogs and I loved my dogs. Later in life I had both and I tended not to react to my own cats. My favourite dog ever was a black cross spaniel type dog that was my constant companion and went running with me every day. I just had to mention the word ‘takkies’ (sneakers) and the would bark and wag her tail in excitement. When she became old I had to stop her running with me but still her tail would wag and she looked so sad when I refused to let her come with me. It was so sad to have to let her go when her kidneys failed.
We had one more dog after that and then settled for cats. The cats, Shadow and Mia, are still with my daughter and she has adopted another but now that we’re retired and travel often, we don’t keep pets. We just keep dog biscuits for the ones who visit.
If you were to buy a new house/apartment what is the top three items on your wish list?
This not going to happen ever again. I lived in my last home for 30 years. Our current home was our holiday house and we’re getting it into shape to suit our final years. I’ve written posts about this from time to time. Right now we’re working on the garden. But to answer the question – Kitchen with accessible cupboards for my old age – drawers come to mind! Plenty of cupboard space. Pretty garden.
What inspired you this past week? Feel free to use a quote, a photo, a story, or even a combination.
Willie inspired me this week. He has some great ideas about what we should do with our garden. He’d already helped with some of it but more needs to be done! We had a long chat, looked at some pictures on the internet and planned what we would do in a ‘dead’ part of the back garden as well as what we do in the front. Today we went shopping for paving, pots and stone and also had a truck load of soil delivered. Soon the landscaping and further designing of the garden will begin!
Here is my contribution to this week’s Odd Ball Challenge from Cee
We have a quaint little town in the Overberg called Napier. Sometimes we stop at the coffee shop which offers delicious food and is decorated with odd bits and pieces. It’s a real feast for the eyes and provides lovely photo opportunities for the photographer.
This week’s Stream of Consciousness prompt is Limb
This immediately brings to mind the idiom “to go out on a limb” which means being in a dangerous or unrecommended position when making a decision to do something. I have often found myself out on a limb. While on that limb I have not felt I shouldnt be there at all. It’s only when the situation is over and I look at it with 20/20 hindsight that I doubt my sanity and say to myself, “What the hell were you thinking! What sane person would do what you’ve just done?” For example when Hubby announced that Number 1 daughter was having a hard time in her marriage I said – bring her on home – along with 2 tiny babies aged 18 months and 4 months respectively. Crazy – it was an insane time – the kids were hyperactive, Mom in no position to cope, I was working full time in a demanding teaching post – at the peak of my career and loving it and now I had to return to working Mom/Gran status. Yet I told everyone how great it was to have the privilege of helping our daughter raise her kids. I hardly noticed the exhaustion, the stress and the drama of fighting an extremely tricky custody case in court. When said case was won, I retreated from the limb and felt an incredible lightness and only then realised what we’d been through. But that was not the end – we continued to help raise the boys until they were 17 and 18 years old. When they were 4 and 5 I gave up my job and only took relief positions until they were 12 and 13. Why hadn’t I stopped earlier? – the pressure was off and I had time to devote to helping them through primary school – both were ADHD and dyslexic. During that time we went out on other limbs for other reasons and for other people and only faced the consequences afterwards. Sometimes we fell off and were hurt but we always picked ourselves up, dusted ourselves off and went straight out onto another limb. This happened when making decisions about our lives, helping out friends or complete strangers and never did we hesitate to think – what will happen if this doesn’t work out?
Then one day we chopped down the tree, left the family home and retired to to our holiday home 230km away. Omiword – the hindsight – I read diaries I kept and exclaim to my husband – Why the hell did we do that! Were we quite mad! At a time in our lives when we should have been winding down and indulging our own needs we started over with a fresh new family and continued to live life at full speed ahead. And we don’t regret a minute of it. We survived and so did our kids and friends. But now! Now we’re doing our own thing. Now we’ve found a new tree with different limbs to go out on. Now the limbs are half as dangerous and purely for our own fun. We will continue to go out on them until they break with the weight of us and we simply can’t any more.
The theme for the Weekly Photo Challenge is Satisfaction.
What a lovely prompt this week. There are so many photos I could choose as I really find many things in my life satisfying. I’ve chosen a few that I think reflect the meaning of the word.
Here is my contribution to this week’s Odd Ball Challenge from Cee